Three Past Years

 








The world will probably often introduce me in the names of what I got from school and so I chose this picture too.


This month, I have just come to the conclusion that if I don’t give up, I can actually get everything I dream of. Until around June 15th, my graduation was still a dream. I was as excited, happy, afraid and confused as you might be. But here I am, a month later, graduated! 


I think I now have an idea of  what I deserve, may be very demanding to some and to others very normal or cheap. Within these past three years, I have learnt the importance of focusing on my business and let others be and live. Should I say I have mastered that, will I even ever graduate in that too? I don’t think so, I just try maintain an acceptable pace for me.


Lots of passions were also discovered along this journey. I have lived in different places, some I liked and some I didn’t. Have I ever talked about the anxiety that comes with moving or  travelling. From carrying heavy bags to losing trains and sharing streets, food, rooms with thousands of nationalities. My favorite remains Naples, for its perfect weather during winter and its large pizzas. I have a burning love for Brazil too because of a few kind Brazilians I met at school and in different places as I travelled. I hope, I will one day call it home too for a few days.

I have virtually enjoyed the Italian kitchen. Using YouTube to watch Italian cooks became my new hobby. I loved moving around in different supermarkets to find the ingredients so I may try that kind of pasta, cheese cake, etc.


And to my sweet people who will just meet/ see me through my account, please know that this is just one part of my life! Remember, I choose what to post hoping you may not compare your life with mine but learn from a few that I share. 


Yours truly,

Perside.

Comments

  1. Adeline1 August 2022 at 10:40

    A good reflection

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  2. Anonymous2 August 2022 at 02:58

    Perfectly written. Can’t wait for more❤️

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    1. Perside Tuyishime7 August 2022 at 17:40

      Thanks for your time reading this. Surely, the best is yet to come!

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  3. Anonymous2 August 2022 at 03:33

    Can’t wait to see you shine sis❤️❤️

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  4. Pris2 August 2022 at 07:01

    You go girl❤️💪🏾

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    1. Perside Tuyishime7 August 2022 at 17:42

      Thanks so so much for your time reading this. I love you!

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  5. Anonymous2 August 2022 at 12:14

    Proud of you ❤️

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    1. Perside Tuyishime7 August 2022 at 17:43

      Thanks so much! Appreciations for reading and leaving a comment!

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  6. Anonymous2 August 2022 at 16:47

    I commend you P!!!!!

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    1. Perside Tuyishime7 August 2022 at 17:45

      Thanks a lot! Thanks for the time you spent here reading!

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  7. Annah8 August 2022 at 02:03

    🔥🔥proud of you cousine 🥹🥹 keep shining

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  8. Pochia8 August 2022 at 09:39

    My new hobby is reading your blogs now😍😍 I love this!!

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    1. Perside Tuyishime30 August 2022 at 16:20

      Love you so much Pochi!!!!!!!!! Thanks for your time.

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  9. Anonymous5 September 2022 at 11:20

    The last paragraph though; It holds a lot🤌🏿❤️🙌🏾Keep this up!🫶

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    1. Perside Tuyishime7 September 2022 at 16:46

      Thanks so much for this!!! I appreciate your time reading.

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  10. Anonymous28 September 2022 at 02:41

    I like of how real you kept🤍🤍 Remembering us all that you choose what to share, and so should we not compare our journeys🤍🤍

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